We complain about men being shallow & only care about the exterior of a woman yet when we see a couple who isn’t “phenotypically compatible”, we come up with obnoxious & hypocritical things to say such as him being blind for marrying someone who doesn’t fulfill our standards of beauty or her casting some kind of evil spell on him because what he sees in her can’t (is absolutely impossible) be what we see. We even go so far as to saying ‘she doesn’t deserve him’ & ‘I would make a better wife than her.’
Who gave us the prerogative to say who deserves to be with who? And why is such a matter not perceived with such opposition when the less attractive (again, by “our” standards) partner is the male?
And the very fact that we, other women, are the first to put out these claims & utter these words is extremely dismal.